Tips To Bring The Spark Back & Affair-Proof Your Marriage

Tips To Bring The Spark Back & Affair-Proof Your Marriage

Infidelity is one of the most traumatic and devastating experiences of life. The scars of betrayal can last a lifetime and even though some marriages can become stronger after an affair, there are better ways to strengthen your marriage than endure the tears and agony of the affair. While affairs can happen for a wide variety of reasons, one of the most commonly cited reason for an affair is boredom. In this article, we reached to different experts to gather their tips on how couples can Read the full article →

50 Tips To Prevent Infidelity

Tips To Prevent Infidelity

Tip 1: Rule Number One: You are Playing on the Same Team! When you hit a rough spot in your relationship you may forget that you and your partner are playing on the same team – the “Smith” or “Jones” team! Remind yourself daily: The intention is not perfection but to hone your skills to throw and catch a good pass, to achieve a goal. Teammates work together! If it doesn’t go well the first time they analyze what went wrong without blaming. They state their concerns, set Read the full article →

Why you should give yourself some time before making a decision about your marriage after the affair?

Why you should give yourself some time before making a decision about your marriage after the affair?

The transcript below is from the interview with Dr. Daniela Roher. Video Transcript While you give yourself some time, you can look at the relationship as well.  People who just walk out, who make the decision, ‘I’m out of here,’ right away.  80% of them later on say they regret the decision.  So because they’ve been given time to really process what they were feeling, to talk to their partners, to get to a place where they can determine if they can something they can do to fix Read the full article →

How does a betrayed spouse feel after the discovery of the affair?

How does a betrayed spouse feel after the discovery of the affair

The transcript below is from the interview with Dr. Daniela Roher. Video Transcript The first reaction that we have to, any situation of finding out that the partner was having an affair is emotional.  And we have, typically, we have many reactions but if you can summarize them, we come down to two forms of reaction.  One is, ‘I can’t trust you.  I’m so mad at you.  I’m out of here.’  So that’s the first reaction.  The other one is, ‘Oh my gosh.  The relationship is Read the full article →

I just found out my spouse had an affair. What should I do now?

I just found out my spouse had an affair. What should I do now?

The transcript below is from the interview with Dr. Daniela Roher. Okay.  If you are the person who has been betrayed, first of all, you need to make a decision: do you want to work on this relationship or do you feel this affair is kind of the last straw that broke the camel's back?  What do you want to do?  You have to be very clear about whether you want to work or you want out. So first step is with yourself.  Make this decision.  Be clear, as much as you can.  And it’s Read the full article →

What to do when you suspect your spouse is having an affair and they deny it?

What to do when you suspect your spouse is having an affair and they deny it

The transcript below is from the interview with Dr. Daniela Roher. Well, my first advice would be to be cautious.  Don’t rush to conclusions before you have enough information to approve whether or not you are correct.  Watch your partner’s behavior.  Look for changes.  For instance, if your partner starts to leave the house or goes to another room when a phone call comes in or a text comes in, or if he or she holds on to his or her cellphone all the time which is very unusual.  If Read the full article →

Why does a cheating spouse starts picking fights with their partner?

Why does a cheating spouse starts picking fights with their partner

Video Transcript And the most common way and it’s often unconscious, the most common way to ease guilt or alleviate guilt is to turn and find fault with your partner.  And this is where it does start to affect the relationship that I feel if you say, ‘I want you to go with me on Saturday,’ when Saturday was the company picnic and I knew I was going to see John there, then I start resenting you for getting in the way of my good time with John.  Does that make sense? It does make Read the full article →

Are all affairs the same?

Are all affairs the same?

Video Transcript In your opinion, are all affairs equal?  And are there any kind of affairs that are less damaging and hopefully more easy to repair than others? Well, are all affairs equal?  It depends on what we’re talking about in terms of equal.  All affairs are extremely heart-breaking when they’re discovered or revealed, of course except in those situations when the betrayed spouse or partner is looking to get out of the relationship anyway which provides them a good Read the full article →

What are the dangers of an emotional affair?

What are the dangers of an emotional affair?

Video Transcript Can you explain that why maybe people start off thinking that an emotional affair is not something that’s serious but in fact may in turn be something they can be quite serious. Well, in dangerous I would take would mean dangerous to a committed relationship, the one that is experiencing the betrayal.  So in that case, if we define physical affair as the one where somebody just goes out and have a one night stand, maybe they drink too much that night, they’re tempted, Read the full article →

What to do if your spouse is not willing to end the affair?

What to do if your spouse is not willing to end the affair?

Video Transcript And in the case of the affair, it has to happen at some point if your spouse refuses to end the relationship with the person, you don’t want to live with somebody who is cheating on you every day in front of you and have you be so weak that you’re tolerating it because you’re afraid of losing that person. You have to get to a tough love stand and this won’t happen maybe the first day when you find out about it, but you have to get to a tough love stand before you Read the full article →